Reason #5 – Would your husband encourage you to go away for a weekend with your sisters?

28 Oct

Mine did. At first it felt like a trick. Like, “Why does he want me to go away? Is he up to no good? is he sick of me?” You know, all the general paranoia stuff.

My older sister is a world traveler. She’s traveled a lot for work, and she’s also traveled because she’s a professional athlete. China, Australia, Netherlands, South Africa, England, Guatemala; you name it, she’s been there. Now, she’s been hounding me for a bit to go on a weekend trip with her. I haven’t been on a weekend trip with her since early 2004 when we drove from New England to Virginia Beach for a WEEKEND (for a conference she was going to.) That’s it!

I do see her quite often, however. As you may have noticed from some of my posts, I live in Washington, DC. My sister, by air, lives only an hour away, so she flies down to (or through) DC quite often.

Finally my husband said to me a few months ago, “Why haven’t you planned this weekend trip with your sister yet??”

Really?? I’ve WANTED to go, but as a mom who loves her family, I’ve felt pretty guilty about planning a trip to California, or Vegas, or Colorado, or WHEREVER for the weekend so I can hang out with my sister and have fun!! I felt guilty abandoning the kids and my husband.

But most of all, I feel guilty going out and having fun without him! He works just as hard as I do!

He told me to worry not, and plan the darn trip. Isn’t my husband amazing??

Well, it’s planned. Tomorrow afternoon I will be flying to Florida with my sister (who was awesome enough to fly here first to meet me, and then head down with me!) And guess what, my other sister already happens to be down in Florida on vacation with her boyfriend, so I’ll get to see her too. And if you can believe that, can you believe that my father and grandfather will be in Florida, too? They drove all the way from New England to pick up a car (my grandfather is an antique car buff), so I’ll get to see them, too! What a weekend!

But, “Florida?? Kind of boring, no?” I’m sure you’re asking.

Yes, I think Florida can be kind of boring, except when your sister was able to win a lottery and purchase tickets for the second to last ever space shuttle launch!!!

That’s right, on Monday, we’ll be seeing STS-133, the space shuttle Discovery make its last flight. How exciting! I got to see STS-49, the maiden voyage of Endeavor, when I was younger, but I think I’ll appreciate this a whole lot more since I’m older.

So a whole weekend in the Orlando area with my sister, before the launch.. what to do, what to do…


  • The launch was scrubbed
  • I ate dinner at the House of Blues at Downtown Disney
  • My sister and I drank lots of Bailey’s on the rocks on our flight down
  • Did you know they call Panama City, Florida (a stop on our flight) the Redneck Riviera?
  • My 15 minute stop in Panama City, Florida, was the first time in my LIFE that I’ve been in the central time zone. I’ve been to Eastern, Atlantic, and Greenwich, but never anywhere west of eastern time.

9 Responses to “Reason #5 – Would your husband encourage you to go away for a weekend with your sisters?”

  1. sunshineinlondon October 28, 2010 at 11:34 am #

    Wow, what an amazing weekend you have planned! It sounds wonderful – enjoy every minute of being there, and of being with your sisters. Sounds so special.
    Sunshine xx

  2. missentregate October 28, 2010 at 12:47 pm #

    THAT’S AWESOME!! what a great mini-vacation. Everyone needs to get away sometimes. Do some living! Enjoy it!

  3. In like Flynn October 28, 2010 at 3:25 pm #

    Absolutley FABU! Have a great time!!!

  4. Rivki @ Life in the Married Lane October 28, 2010 at 3:36 pm #

    Whoa! That’s fantastic! And very nice of your husband. Enjoy!

  5. Paige Morgan October 28, 2010 at 5:23 pm #

    So cool! I know it’s not related to your marriage project, but you have to share the details of the launch. Have fun!

  6. wittywife October 29, 2010 at 9:52 am #

    Well, scratch the whole shuttle launch thing. The launch just got delayed. Bummer.

  7. Nicole October 31, 2010 at 6:31 pm #

    Ooh, have FUN! I love get-aways! They’re so needed sometimes!

  8. Dalai Lina November 1, 2010 at 10:39 pm #

    Maybe he just wants control of the remote? 🙂

    • wittywife November 2, 2010 at 10:39 am #

      Haha! Nah, we generally like the same things.

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