Where do you start when you’ve made a big old mess of your marriage? I’ve made a big mess of mine, that’s for sure. And now we’re at odds. I haven’t been forgiven, and there’s a lot of anger. We also disagree on certain fundamentals for our marriage. I also haven’t followed my own Marriage Project advice, and I’m pretty upset with myself.
Couple that with:
- Recently finding out our son has some special needs and dealing with the scheduling and the handful of specialists who want their hands on him
- Me starting a new job
- Having some custody issues regarding my daughter with her father
and we’re stretched really thin.
So, where do I start? Things aren’t going to get fixed overnight, but what can I do now to get the ball rolling? Let’s get back to the basics:
- I can only control me. I haven’t done a great job, but rereading my own posts should be helpful.
- I like the idea of going back to trying to keep positive. For one day. For another day… And over and over.
Maybe it’s a small start, but I need to start somewhere. Wish me luck.