Everyone knows the keys to successful marriages. We all do. But still there’s lots of failure.
My initial thoughts:
- Marriage is hard work. It doesn’t just ‘happen.’
- Marriage isn’t for everyone.
- There’s no such thing as ‘the one.’ Falling in love is easy. Getting married is making is not just about falling in love; it’s about making a choice.
- The grass is always greener, and will it always WILL be if you think there’s “the one.” Again, it’s easy to fall in love, and if you’re having issues with your spouse, you’ll question yourself into thinking a new person might REALLY be “the one.” Don’t question it. You’re married, you’ve made your choice. Work on your issues.
And so I’m married, I made my decision. It’s my project. I can’t control what anyone else does, only me. In this blog, you’ll see what I’m ‘doing.’